I normally don't post up personal stuff.........

[Fastbird]

omg! the visitor! it was like a death sentence................. you could just tell when she came out of the bathroom crying! so any happiness that month was shot. I never knew how freakin hard it was to get pregnant. people do it all the time. ooppss. her sisters were prime examples 2-6 kids each! we couldnt even have one. i gues theres only really two days a month you can actually get pregnant. We were takin temps, writing notes, days , times everything. IT SUCKED. And doing the deed did become a chore. it was terrible. we kept thinking what did we do to deserve this. Now its alot better. We also have the same issues with finances too. Shes been out of work about 3 months before she had him cause they went under and a few months after she had him she got pregnant with our daughter and the morning sickness kept her only working 2-3 days a week until she just stayed home. now she had our daughter 5 months ago and wants to work to get away from all the stress of two kids(19month old and a 5 month old) and cant find a decent job! its always somthing. the last iui we did we were kinda like whatever. we'll just have to wait for the ivf when we can afford it. and bqang it happened. i think we also put so much stress on ourselves that it screwed us up too. thats y it didnt take much for her to concieve our daughter.

We must be living in the same world. Seriously. WAY too many similarities in our lives.

btw: there very fertile just after delivery for a few months.....

Which is a good thing. We're planning on having 2-4 pretty much back to back as long as her body will support it. Figure 12-15 months between births is what we're gunning for. Hopefully.

[tomsws6]

We must be living in the same world. Seriously. WAY too many similarities in our lives.



Which is a good thing. We're planning on having 2-4 pretty much back to back as long as her body will support it. Figure 12-15 months between births is what we're gunning for. Hopefully.

word of advise.........make sure you both are ready for it. with 2 kids close to age and no real help from family or friends it will tough on her cause she wont get a "BREAK". trust me i know!! i here that everyday. even though you come home from working 2 jobs and you help with the kids when your there, she will always be there witht he kids 24/7. just something to think about. we wanted the kids pretty close in age so it worked out but bvery very stressfull on the woman and then it turns on you. 12-15 months between means that she will have to carry them both around for a couple months cause theyd only be 3-6 months old.

[Fastbird]

I'm quitting my second job prior to our first being born. There's a possibility her mother may be coming out for an "extended" stay with us (read moving in if she loses her job, which I'm fine with). My wife will be going back to work 8-12 weeks after the baby is born too and we'll be utilizing the Child Development Center on base until we have our second at which point it will be more financially sensible for her to quit her job and be a stay at home mom, which is what she wants in the first place.

[tomsws6]

thats cool. atleast your thinking ahead.

[Fastbird]

Little update. Had our Dr's appointment today, everything looking exactly as it should. Textbook pregnancy as they called it. My wife and I were getting a little unnerved though, because as of thursday through Saturday she was feeling a lot of movement, then hasn't felt much of anything sunday through this morning, but a doppler verified a good strong heartbeat still. the Dr just informed us that it's quite common when first experiencing movement for it to be there then go away, but if it happens after regularly feeling it then it would be cause for concern. I was actually getting really unnerved last night so this was a big sigh of relief for me.

[WildRidez]

Thats awesome man. Glad to hear things are clearing up for you man.

[1hottcamaro]

Glad to hear everything is looking good for u!! Congrats on it bein a boy!! Being pregnant can be tough! I know I hated not being able to go shopping for cute clothes and I felt big even though I was all belly and didnt gain anything anywhere else besides a little in the face... I know I drove mpe331lx freakin CRAZY complaining the whole time about how I wasnt 'hot' cuz I was pregnant.. soo just continue to be supportive and keep us updated.

[Toronto_LT1]

congrats Sean!
glad things are looking up.keep us posted.